Part 1
The first part of this assignment asked me to communicate with my friend where I was not allowed to speak. I found it quite difficult to have a conversation using only body language and to attempt to act out what I was feeling or trying to say. I tried using my face expressions and hand signals to express myself but I failed most of the time to get my message across to my friend.
For the most part, my friend was confused and did not know what I was trying to say. She found it incredibly difficult to have a normal conversation with me and spent the whole time guessing my body language. She seemed a bit frustrated towards the end and I began to notice she also tried to use some body language to determine the words I was trying to express. She did not talk as much as she used to because I was not communicating with her through speech. It was clearly difficult to communicate with each other and spent the whole time guessing each other’s actions.
I believe that the culture that does not use symbolic language has the advantage of getting their message across using body language. If that culture does not rely on speech to communicate with each other, they would have more experience with acting out their words and feelings through their body language. Individuals who rely on symbolic language do not put much thought into using body language as their main source of communication. The culture that does not use symbolic language has the advantage of communicating complex ideas. The two different cultures I could think of would be the deaf and the hearing. Although deaf individuals can use sign language to communicate with each other, the hearing does not understand the language. Therefore, when the deaf try to communicate with the hearing, it is especially difficult because they can only rely on body language to get their message across. This example is quite similar to that of the task required in Part 1 of this assignment. I found it extremely time consuming to get a few sentences across to my friend by only using body language. This assignment has shown me how difficult it can be for those who do not rely on speech to communicate with those who speak a symbolic language.
Part 2
This part of the experiment was surprisingly difficult for me. Part 2 of this assignment allowed us to interact with our partner by only using speech but without using any body language or expressions. I have a habit of talking with my hands and touching my hair during conversations with other people. During this experiment, I found that I unconsciously touched my hair when I’m thinking of an answer and started moving my hands when I began to talk. I also noticed I would raise my eyebrows if I didn’t understand a certain question. I kept readjusting my face expressions so that I would not smile and I found it to be quite uncomfortable remaining expressionless and not moving any part of my body.
My friend, whom I was communicating with, told me she also felt uncomfortable with my communication limitations. She actually giggled every so often at my expressionless face when she said something funny or sad. She also felt as if she was talking to a wall and did not know how I felt about her comments due to my lack of expressions.
Many people use some sort of body language when they are communicating with each other through symbolic language. Most of us are unaware of body movements and feel it is normal to do so during conversations. I believe using signs while communicating is very important to truly understand each other’s emotions and feelings. Without laughing when something is funny or frowning in a sad situation, there can be a restricted limitation in the conversations. By remaining emotionless, conversations with other people can become quite dull and boring.
Reading body language can be either beneficial or inconvenient. For example, a psychic may use their knowledge of body language to determine what another person is feeling. They use this to their advantage to guess their client’s thoughts and to say what they want to hear. On the other hand, reading body language cannot be beneficial under certain situations. Many different cultures have their own body language. One motion of the hand can mean something positive in one culture while the same hand movement can be insulting in another.








